☆Your greatest challenge is dealing with negative feedback
☆The way forward is to understand that any kind of feedback, positive or negative, is helpful. The secret is to learn from it.
The Birthday Of The Hypnotic Personality, The Day Of Worldly Challenge
Sun signs: Aries/Taurus
Ruling planets: Mars, the warrior/Venus, the lover
Symbols: The Ram/The Bull
Birth date ruler: Moon, the intuitive
Tarot card: Judgment (responsibility)
Favorable numbers: 2, 6
Lucky days: Tuesday and Monday, especially when these days fall on 2 and 6 of the month
Lucky colors: Scarlet, silver, lilac
Birthstone: Diamond
People born on April 20 often have a hypnotic personality; others willingly follow their lead, sometimes even blindly. They are hungry for success and the admiration of others, with a burning desire to see their goals realized. Fortunately, they also have a highly developed sense of fair play; only rarely will they use their hypnotic powers for personal gain or unworthy causes.
Once they find a cause or a goal to inspire them, these people will often identify with it. Despite identifying strongly with group values there is, however, a side to them that remains deeply private, sensual and sensitive. In tune with all their senses, physical touch is their sustenance; to break down barriers, they will often be the first to kiss, hug or hold hands. This combination of ambition and sensitivity can occasionally make them moody and needy, but it also gives them an enigmatic and compelling quality.
When these determined and charismatic people set their minds on something, they will allow nothing and no one to stand in their way. Such ambition and tenacity suggest that they have the potential for outstanding success in all areas of their lives. The danger with their clarity of vision and purpose is that it can inspire strong opposition. Since they find it hard to accept criticism of any sort, they have a tendency to block out alternative opinions and viewpoints, often dominating others. They also have a tendency, if thwarted, to retreat into a fantasy world far removed from the reality of others.
It is important for people born on this day to recognize the importance of maintaining an open mind and to accept that, despite their personal magnetism and ability to inspire others, they may not always be right. This tendency to be inflexible is highlighted in their first thirty years, but after the age of thirty they become more interested in learning and communication. If they can take advantage of this opportunity to become more open-minded, there is nothing to stop them achieving the ambitions that inspire them.
☆ On the dark side：Egotistical, isolated, stubborn
☆ At your best：Sensual, charismatic, inspirational
Those born on April 20 have highly developed leadership abilities. Dynamic individuals, their inner drive invariably points them in an upward direction, inevitably toward accomplishment, success and power. In addition, those born on this day are rarely content to simply advance their own cause but also must feel that they are able to put their family, business or social group on the right course. Group values always remain a high priority for them.
Yet, not uncommonly, those born on this day are also extremely sensitive and highly private individuals. They have a strongly developed fantasy life, which can be invaluable to their career but only if put to constructive use. Their sensitivity may lead them to be touchy and high-strung, but also can lend their character a mesmerizing quality which makes them fascinating to others. It is incumbent on them, however, to remain in touch with and in control of their feelings since those born on this day tend to stir the emotions of others so strongly, particularly those of loved ones and friends.
No matter what walk of life these socially committed individuals find themselves in, it is the challenges of the world which spur them on. For the most part they do not avoid problems or conflicts but welcome them. That they do not seem cut out for an easy, relaxed life at all is apparent, and this can indeed seem an impassible barrier to their ever achieving happiness or rest. Yet, curiously, they find refuge in intense excitement and concentrated problem solving, much like a bird or plane that seeks safe haven in the eye of the hurricane. Their whirlwind energies may wear others down, however, and eventually take their toll on themselves as well.
April 20 people are highly intuitive, often preferring to fly by the seat of their pants than follow a map. But at the same time they are intensely physical, needing the satisfaction offered by food, sensuous human contact and a stable family life. Although the earthy aspects of their personality can serve to ground their imaginative side, conflicts may also arise, particularly when the gulf between dreams and reality becomes impassible.
Those born on this day must be careful not to allow themselves to suffer frustration for very long, but rather scale back their goals to more attainable levels when necessary. Learning to objectively assess their capabilities, regularly monitor themselves and remain flexible enough to revise their daily approach to life when needed will be important to keeping them on their path.
Power Thought：Today, and every day, I will make a point of getting curious about one thing，The highest form of control is knowing when to let go
Those born on the 20th day of the month are ruled by the number 2 (2+0=2). and by the Moon. Those ailed by the number 2 tend to be gentle and imaginative, and are easily hurt by the criticism or inattention of others. They may also take offense easily and have a low threshold of irritation (underlined by Mars, ruler of Aries). Because of the Moon's influence, those ruled by the number 2 are likely to be impressionable and emotional. Since April 20 people can have difficulties in respect to exercising power, they must guard their sensitive natures and work on what is often low self-esteem.
The 20th card of the Major Arcana shows The Judgment or Awakening in which people are urged to leave material considerations behind and seek a higher spirituality. The card, depicting an angel blowing a trumpet, signifies that a new day. a day of accountability, is dawning. It is a card which moves us beyond our ego and allows us to glimpse the infinite. The danger is that the trumpet call heralds only exaltation and intoxication, a loss of balance and indulgence in revels involving the basest instincts. The challenge for April 20 people is in acceptance of reality and avoidance of delusion.
☆Luck maker：(Master the art of quiet contentedness)Don’t brag when life goes your way, as people will resent you, increasing your chances of bad luck. Master the art of quiet contentedness and you’ll get a lot further and feel a lot happier.
You’re drawn to people born on June 22 to July 23：You share both a passion for romance and nurturing instincts, and this can create a supportive and loving bond.
People born on April 20 are very tactile and like to show their affection physically, so if they are not holding their partner’s hand at the movie theater something may be wrong. They can be highly strung at times, but when they find a partner who enjoys being as busy as they are, they make loving, understanding and deeply sensual lovers.
People born on this day need to make sure their diet is not too high in sugar or saturated fat, as there is a tendency for them to comfort eat when they are feeling low; this will have a negative effect on their blood-sugar levels, their waistline and their health in general. Their diet should be as rich as possible in fresh, natural, unprocessed foods such as whole grains, fruits, vegetables, lean meats, nuts, and seeds. Such a diet will not only keep their health in balance, but also their moods. As far as exercise is concerned, they should avoid competitive sports and choose activities that help them take time out from competition and getting ahead, such as walking, swimming, cycling, or dancing. Mind-body therapies such as yoga, meditation and tai chi are also recommended. Wearing, meditating on or surrounding themselves with the color green will help restore their energies and inspire trust in others.
As outlined above. April 20 people may face enormous stress in their lives, particularly in the realm of bringing their earthy and fiery natures into balance with each other. In fact, their health depends on their ability to achieve this balance. April 20 people people should consider cutting certain substances from their diet or at least keeping them under strict control. The first of these is sugar. If April 20 people have a sweet tooth it w ill be difficult to control their sugar intake, but nonetheless imperative that they do so to maintain stability and constancy of mood. In addition, they should beware of the typical Aries love of spicy, hot foods and of exotic dishes. What should April 20 people eat' drains of all types are stabilizing: so are potatoes and other vegetables grown under the earth, like carrots, turnips and beets Hot baths with minerals or oils, aromatherapy, massage and yoga can all aid relaxation.
These people have the focus, determination and tenacity to become excellent negotiators, agents, project managers, consultants, or advisors. They also possess natural leadership qualities, particularly as a manager, executive or entrepreneur. A strong creative ability may lead them to the world of arts and entertainment or setting up their own business as a freelancer.
The life path of people born on this day is to learn to open their mind to alternative visions of the future. Once they are able to accept the possibility of other realities apart from their own, their destiny is to lead and inspire others toward progressive ideals.
Don't go off the deep end; ground yourself. Try to be more accepting and less touch quiet confidence lessens your need to prove yourself.
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