☆Your greatest challenge is trusting and sharing with others
☆The way forward is to understand that everything in life, including relationships, involves a certain amount of risk-taking. Sometimes you just have to take a leap of faith.
The Birthday Of The Secret, The Day Of The Great Enigma
Sun signs: Sagittarius/Capricorn
Ruling planets: Jupiter, the philosopher/Saturn, the teacher
Symbols: The Archer/The Goat
Birth date ruler: Jupiter, the philosopher
Tarot card: The World (fulfillment)
Favorable numbers: 3, 6
Lucky day: Thursday, especially when it falls on 3 and 6 of the month
Lucky colors: Purple, blue, white
Birthstone: Turquoise
Although they are energetic and strong willed, it’s very hard to know what people born on December 21 are really thinking and feeling as they are by nature secretive. They prefer to express themselves with actions rather than words, and their powerful, silent presence can be inscrutable even to those closest to them.
Even though they might be a mystery to others, this does not mean they are reserved or passive. Quite the opposite; they are determined to achieve their goals and get their point across. It is just that instead of an exchange of opinions they usually prefer to push ahead regardless of what others are saying or thinking. If this means there will be battles along the way, so be it. In fact, their presence can be intimidating not just because others never know what to expect from them but because when they do lash out their few carefully chosen words can be harsh and cutting. Others may therefore feel that they can never relax around them because they are like a dormant volcano, quiet on the outside but with a burning intensity on the inside.
Despite sometimes appearing menacing or brooding, they are surprisingly insecure, although they would never allow others to know this. It’s this insecurity, however, which forces them to be defensive, to nurture hidden resentments against those that cross them and, above all, to crave the admiration and respect of others. They should understand that they already have the admiration of others, but what they really need is their affection; this can only be earned when they learn to trust and share their feelings.
Around the age of thirty-two there will be a turning point when there are opportunities for them to focus less on proving themselves and more on finding their place within society. If they can take advantage of these opportunities and learn to open their minds to alternative viewpoints and their hearts to the magical potential within them and others, they will not only discover the secret of their happiness but the secret of everyone else’s too.
☆ On the dark side：Domineering, inflexible, self-involved
☆ At your best：Strong-willed, authoritative, intriguing
The powerful individuals bom on December 21 know something about using silence to their adv antage. Whether verbal or not. they primarily use their body, presence or psyche to get their ideas across in an irresistible fashion. It is very difficult to oppose them, so directed are they toward achieving their purpose.
Indeed. December 21 people are able to squeeze every ounce of energy they have in a determined drive to make the issue at hand a one-way street going in their direction only. Once they force another individual to do something their way, they can better control the outcome.
As mentioned earlier, December 21 people can use silence with devastating effect. By refusing to speak at crucial junctures in conversation or negotiation, they can upset or intimidate others far more than if they spoke or even shouted at length. One gets the idea sometimes that behind that silence is a wicked temper that can break loose at almost any instant, and therefore others often treat those bom on this day with great care, lest the v olcano explode. This feeling of walking on eggs can eventually takes its toll on their mates and the resulting stresses can unfortunately lead to a breakup. Consequently, December 21 people may have difficulty sustaining their interpersonal relationships over the years, perhaps leaving a trail of broken hearts behind them.
Those bom on this day do not particularly like answering questions about themselves.
Highly secretive about their inner fantasy life, they are nonetheless powerful in projecting these fantasies out on the world and shaping their environment. Both their desires and capacity to control others are great. Many people treat them in just the way they wish to be treated in order to keep them in a good mood, since they know the alternative only too well. Yet December 21 people can also be charming, sensual and warm with those they love.
Both men and women born on this day are physically powerful through their mastery of movement and stillness. In addition they usually have an abiding love for small children and or animals, a love which can at times eclipse their interest in their adult peers. In such relationships their strong intuitive gifts and non-verbal abilities find a full range of expression.
’He who is not with me is against me” is too often the watchword of December 21 people.
They must leam to be more forgiving and not just to be able to like people who like them.
Reducing fear of rejection, easing doubts and insecurities, and cooling intense desires to be admired are all helpful in furthering their spiritual growth.
Power Thought：Whatever the question, I know that love is the answer，The first step in being honest is leveling with yourself
Those born on the 21th day of the month are ruled by the number 3 f 2+1=3). and by the expansive planet Jupiter. Those ruled by the number 3 are often ambitious, sometimes dictatorial. December 21 people in particular may fall victim to their own manipulative tendencies as the can manifest a great need to both control others and be admired by them. The number 21 has strong associations with physical beauty, particularly for women. The double influence of Jupiter (ruler of Sagittarius and of the number 3) leads to an expansive attitude toward the world, but Saturn’s influence (as Capricorn's ruler) lends a dark passionate quality.
The 21st card of the Major Arcana Is The World, which depicts a goddess running while holding energy-giving rods. She surmounts the world and displays the truth: she has unlimited power. This card symbolizes all that is attainable on the earthly plane. Although reward and integrity are assured, traditionally the card can also indicate monumental obstacles and setbacks of fortune, as well as negative traits of distraction and self-pity.
☆Luck maker：(Let go of hidden resentments)Hidden resentments poison your thoughts, keep you stuck in the past and attract bad luck your way. Letting go or forgiving, however, has the opposite effect, channeling your energy into attracting luck.
You’re drawn to people born on November 22 to December 21：If you can both learn to be less secretive, open up and share, this relationship has great potential for happiness.
People born on December 21 are attractive but also slightly unsettling for potential partners. This is because they like to do their own thing but won’t allow others to do theirs. If things aren’t perfect for them they will withdraw or move on without explanation or discussion. A feisty partner who isn’t intimidated by them would help them find happiness.
People born on this day can suffer from tension and mental overload, so solitude is vital for them to quiet and calm their mind. They need to be careful, though, not to go overboard in their need for space and quiet, because too much time spent alone is not good for them. They may find that the best way to deal with tension is to spend more time with friends and loved ones. Counseling or therapy is advised if they find it very hard to open up and share. As far as diet is concerned, they need to watch their intake of sweet and fatty foods because weight gain, particularly around the middle, can be a problem. Caffeine and alcohol should also be limited and, if they smoke, they are advised to quit immediately to reduce the risk of heart disease. Vigorous exercise, preferably of the social kind such as dancing, aerobics or team sports, is recommended. Wearing, meditating on and surrounding themselves with the color orange will encourage them to be more spontaneous and expressive, as will carrying a turquoise crystal.
Those bom on December 21 have to beware of depressions when their desires are frustrated. Repressed anger anti resentment can result in controlling and occasionally violent behavior. Sexual expression and satisfaction are usually very important to December 21 people. Toward this end, they require a loving mate who can not onl provide them w ith both wamith and affection but satisfy them physically. Problems with skin, teeth and weight gain can arise usually as a result of dietary imbalances. December 21 people must keep their craing for sweets under control, as well as their tendency to eat too much animal and dairy fat. The use of all addictive substances, particularly alcohol and antidepressants, should be carefully monitored. igorous physical exercise ranging from aerobics to horseback riding are recommended.
These people may often be found dominating in a variety of careers in the fields of science, business, sports, arts, and the world of entertainment. They typically rise to management level, but may also work for themselves and become high-flying entrepreneurs.
The life path of people born on this day is to recognize the power of positive thinking. Once they have understood that they are in charge of who or what they attract into their lives, their destiny is to combine their authority and decisiveness with compassion and flexibility, becoming outstanding leaders in their chosen field.
Learn to be more open and less secretive; trust and share. Don't build up inner resentments.Your projected fantasies can be dangerous. Beware of putting claims on others.
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