☆Your greatest challenge is coping with not being listened to
☆The way forward is to understand that authority is something that has to be earned; balance your leadership skills with a concern for the welfare of others.
The Birthday Of The Captain, The Day Of Fortitude
Sun sign: Sagittarius
Ruling planet: Jupiter, the philosopher
Symbol: The Archer
Birth date ruler: Uranus, the visionary
Tarot card: The Emperor (authority)
Favorable numbers: 4, 7
Lucky days: Thursday and Sunday, especially when these days fall on 4 and 7 of the month
Lucky colors: Blue, silver, light yellow
Birthstone: Turquoise
People born on December 4 are ambitious, hardworking and resilient individuals who can display remarkable self-control in both their professional and personal lives. They have the rare ability to take charge of their emotions without losing their creativity, and this gives them tremendous self-confidence, power over themselves and authority over others. They are like flamboyant and daring but highly skilled and well-prepared captains with a thirst for adventure and all the courage and ingenuity they need to successfully steer through uncharted waters to undiscovered lands.
Although they cherish their own individuality and are unwilling to submit themselves to the ideas or authority of others, they may feel compelled to impose their ideas on those around them, sometimes forcefully. Unaware of this contradiction between their directional urges and their own right to autonomy, they can come across as dictatorial or egotistical; but this is rarely the case. For the great majority of the time they are genuinely concerned for the greater good, rather than any selfish ambitions. Like a brave captain who will not leave their ship until everyone is safe, their natural sense of justice and honor will propel them toward activities that are intended to bring about a more enlightened or better-regulated society.
At the age of eighteen, people born on this day may start to manifest their natural leadership skills and over the next thirty years they will gradually become more practical, goal-orientated and realistic in their approach to achievement. They may also have a strong desire for order and structure in their lives. After the age of forty-eight there is another significant turning point which highlights a growing need for freedom, new ideas and expressing their individuality within a group setting.
Whatever age they are, if they can find a middle way between nobility and ambition, love and success, compassion and power, independence and the need to compromise, they will not only be capable of inspired leadership, they will also be capable of becoming the visionaries of their generation.
☆ On the dark side：Authoritarian, hypocritical, inflexible
☆ At your best：Powerful, ambitious, inspirational
Those born on December 4 are gutsy, aggressive individuals who have the courage to go for it, heart and soul. Pain, conflict and struggle are no strangers to them and they may repeatedly be faced with the challenge of great difficulties and overwhelming odds.
Nonetheless, they stand a fairly good chance of achieving their far-reaching goals through an unusual combination of grace and vitality, all the while being careful not to incite jealousy in others. Many born on this day, however, have a knack for instilling fear in the most powerful of adversaries, or at least a worrying sense of anxiety. It must be said that a certain ruthlessness of purpose often accompanies this day, and the enemies of December 4 people probably sense that little if any mercy will be afforded them.
December 4 people can display touches of egomaniacal and sociopathic tendencies, but fortunately such urges rarely come to dominate their personality. Normally their ideals and beliefs remain uncorrupted and they often put themselves in service of some higher human, political or artistic cause. Indeed, they will sacrifice their own comfort and security for what they believe. Usually blessed with a talent for organization, they have the capacity to listen to their colleagues or employees but tolerate no serious threat to their authority, which must remain unchallenged. The temptation to secure absolute power in their sphere (whether as humble as their own home or as expansive as a nation) is very great for them and they may in fact need to be checked or moderated for their own sake. Also, the danger exists that they will take on more responsibilities than they can handle. For December 4 people, more than others, knowing their limitations can save them many frustrations and indignities.
Usually the critical faculties of December 4 people are highly developed. They have a rare ability to size up a person or argument quickly and accurately, without relying on preconceived ideas or prejudices. However, if they are emotionally involved with a subject their objectivity can be clouded. Consequently, December 4 people must make an effort to keep their public and private lives distinct and separate. For example, highly destructive consequences can result from favoring their own friends in business matters.
The sooner December 4 people rein in the sometimes disruptive, often theatrical side of their nature the better. This is not to suggest that they should suppress their individualism or pizazz, but that they come to better understand the impact of their actions on their environment.
Those December 4 people who grow wiser with age learn to harness their energies in a more constructive and productive way. thereby making important social contributions to the life around them.
Power Thought：In my world everyone is a winner，Relinquishing power may at certain times be the most powerful thing one can do
Those born on the 4th day of the month are niled by the number i and by the planet Uranus. People ruled by the number 4 have their own, often peculiar, way of doing things; I Franus indicates sudden changeability and unpredictable action, traits that can be magnified in December t people. Those ruled by the number 4 generally show little concern for making money, particularly in their younger years, and this seems to hold true for December t people who are often taken up with ideas instead. December 4 people do, however, understand the relation between money and power. Due to the influence of the planet I franus, those ruled by the number 4 can be quick and explosive in their change of mood, qualities enhanced (along with material luck and aggressiveness) in December 4 people by Jupiter's rulership of their sign, Sagittarius.
The 4th card of the Major Arcana is The Emperor, who rules over worldly things through wisdom, the primary source of his power. The Emperor is stable and wise, and the force of his authority cannot be questioned. The positive associations of this card are strong willpower and steadfast energy; negative indications include stubbornness, tyranny, even brutality.
☆Luck maker：(Be an energy source)When you invite other people into your limelight or offer them recognition, you become an energy source and others will want to keep you center stage. The outcome of your generosity will be new opportunities for you.
You’re drawn to people born on January 20 to February 18：Although you are different in many ways, there is much you can learn to love about each other.
People born on December 4 rarely have problems attracting potential partners, but long-term relationships may prove elusive. It is important for them to learn the importance of give and take in a relationship, and to find a balance between their idyllic romantic optimism and practical reality. Once they do decide to commit, they need to find a partner who can give them the freedom they need to feel alive.
People born on this day tend to have an optimistic approach to life and are not prone to depression. There will be times, however, when they feel tired or run down, and they should learn to pace themselves and take regular vacations. They also need to master the art of delegation. Allowing others to help them will not only ease their workload, it will give them time to find a healthy balance of interests outside of work. Meditation techniques are highly recommended because they will enjoy the sense of calm, peace and balance they can bring. As far as diet is concerned, they need to cut down on sugar and processed and refined foods, and to increase their intake of whole grains, fruits and vegetables. Moderate to vigorous exercise is recommended, particularly team sports and outdoor activities where they can work off their aggressive tendencies. Wearing, meditating on and surrounding themselves with the color purple will encourage them to think about higher things, and bring a true sense of harmony, peace and balance into their lives.
December 4 people must be careful that their aggressive energy does not get out of control, for their own sake and that of their friends and family. Vigorous physical exercise is recommended, including competitive team sports and endurance activities (mountain climbing, mnning. water sports) to work off their excess energy and aggression. Learning how to meditate and still the mind, will and desires for a few minutes each day may also be helpful. December i people may do best with a diet built around more stable foods (grains, root vegetables, hearty soups. breads), and reduced emphasis on sugar, spices and alcohol.
These people may be drawn toward careers in politics or they may choose to promote their ideological beliefs through the arts. Other possible career choices include business, commerce, advertising, sport, agriculture, conservation, management, and the world of entertainment.
The life path of people born on this day is to learn to listen to others’ views and find a balance between their idealism and ambition. Once they can achieve their goals while retaining the affection and respect of those with whom they live and work, their destiny is to advance the greater good.
Learn that the greatest power is the power of love. Keep your spirit high, but direct it at all times.Take on more internal, rather than external, responsibilities. Keep the welfare of others in mind.Don't be so fearful of losing your authority,
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