☆Your greatest challenge is being sensitive to the feelings of others
☆The way forward is to understand that the truth presented tactfully can be motivational but the truth presented harshly can make others defensive.
The Birthday Of The Guide, The Day Of The Investigator
Sun sign: Scorpio
Ruling planet: Mars, the warrior
Symbol: The Scorpion
Birth date ruler: Mercury, the communicator
Tarot card: Temperance (moderation)
Favorable numbers: 5,7
Lucky days: Tuesday and Wednesday, especially when these days fall on 5 and 7 of the month
Lucky colors: Dark blue, deep red, green
Birthstone: Topaz
People born on November 14 have an intense and earnest air about them, others immediately sensing their conviction and self-reliance. They are driven by their desire to fully understand what life presents them with but most of all by their urge to guide others toward improvement.
Tending to observe others with a degree of affectionate distance, this gives these people the detachment and objectivity they need to guide and improve the lives of others. More often than not the insights and advice they offer are embraced wholeheartedly by colleagues, friends and loved ones, but sometimes they can be too meddling. It is important for them to understand that there are situations in which their advice will not necessarily be welcome and occasions where their judgments will not be appreciated.
Until the age of thirty-seven there will be opportunities for people born on this day to become more expansive in their outlook and, because of their tendency to connect with others on an intellectual rather than an emotional level, they should try to integrate more with others and with society as a whole. It is also important during this time that they evaluate their choice of career intensely and if need be make changes, because it might significantly impact their psychological growth. After the age of thirty-eight there is a turning point when they may become more realistic, persevering and security conscious, seeking more structure and order.
Whatever career they choose, they tend to see themselves as teachers or guides and have all the passion, integrity and intellect they need to be a positive force in the lives of others. However, it is not until they are able to turn the spotlight on their own needs, in particular their own need for guidance and support, that they will be able to balance their orientation toward others with their own needs. Ironically, it is only when they can find what gives their own life meaning and fulfillment that they can truly assist others, becoming the inspirational guide and role model they were destined to be.
☆ On the dark side：Interfering, controlling, frustrated
☆ At your best：Intelligent, observant, helpful
Those born on November 14 manifest an urge to explore their environment down to the last detail. Though they are intensely curious about their surroundings in general, they are highly selective in their interests and have a well-defined point of view. Their ideas of social responsibility, whether conservative or liberal, are usually perfectly clear to themselves and to others and moral in nature.
November 14 people are often involved in guiding the lives of others. They readily see those areas that need improvement, and indeed those deficits they target may be objectively lacking. However, they must remember that they are nonetheless operating from their own subjective viewpoint and their input may not always be appreciated. In particular, they may have to hold their tongue where their love relationship is concerned. Also, because they are so quick to recognize the strengths and weaknesses of a given situation, they may not allow others a chance to discover for themselves.
It is a strength of November 14 people that they have little need for gratuitous praise of their achievements or abilities. Both men and women born on this day are capable of subjugating themselves to a cause and avoiding ego trips. Because of such self-reliance they can easily recognize flatterers and those who harbor ulterior motives.
More highly evolved November 14 people, whether they be artists, scientists, manufacturers, business people, or involved in providing a service, always do their homework on any project in which they are engaged—probing, testing, examining the object of their saidy with minute exactitude. They are both ruthless and honest in putting their own theories to the test and discarding those products or elements which do not work. Thus their objectivity is well preserved.
Just as November 14 people are highly observant in regard to the external world, they should develop a greater ability to perceive inner truths, including the emotional and spiritual state of themselves and others. Such a sense of understanding can make them more effective when dealing with human and social matters that impact on their career and work. Because those born on this day make a point of following through on their endeavors, investing much of themselves in realizing their goals, they must also be sure to chart the proper course from the outset.
It is imperative that November 14 people strengthen their integration with friends, family and society in general. Those born on this day who do so greatly lighten their burden and enjoy a firmer sense of purpose that insures their success. As they are often quite ambitious and powerful people, they need to seek consensus and cultivate their ability to compromise. By finding a middle way and perhaps moderating their more extreme tendencies they can be highly effective and ultimately achieve more lasting results.
Power Thought：To truly help others I must first help myself，See first what is directly before you
Those born on the 14th day of the month are ruled by the number 5 < 1+4=5), and by the speed) planet Mercury. Due to the influence of this highly active planet, powerful intellect and mental tenacity are conferred on November 14 people. The accompanying influence of Pluto ( the dark ruler of Scorpio) strengthens curiosity in those born on this day and perhaps a desire to unearth hidden secrets. For those November 14 people who suffer calamity, the number 5 bestows a resilient character which resists permanent damage from the hard knocks of life.
The 14th card of the Major Arcana is Temperance, which stresses the need for balance and moderation. The figure depicted is a guardian angel who protects us and keeps us on an even keel. Positively seen, Temperance modifies passions in order to allow for new truths to be learned and incorporated into one's life (thus such a figure can serve as a model for November 14 people). The card cautions against all forms of egotistical excess. Because a negative indication of the Temperance card is a tendency to change too easily with the mood of the times and current fashion, November 14 people should try to establish their own style, technique and system of thought if possible and stick to them with conviction.
☆Luck maker：(Thrust and squeeze)The bonding power of a firm handshake signifies energy, trust and strength and is more likely to impress people and make them want to offer their support than a limp wrist. Most lucky people have firm handshakes.
You’re drawn to people born on June 21 to July 22：You both have a lot to learn and love about each other, and this can be a passionate and creative union.
Relationships are deep and intense for people born on November 14, and trust means everything to them. It may take them a while to give that trust, but once they do they love forever, sometimes even when that trust is betrayed. They are attracted to dramatic and intelligent people like themselves, who can inspire them to be more expressive and original than they already are.
People born on this day may suffer from mild rashes and bouts of insomnia. These could be food intolerances but could also be a result of unnecessary stress and anxiety about their health. They may visit their doctor once too often for minor ailments; although it is important to take precautions, they should have more faith in their body’s ability to heal itself; perhaps studying the principles of naturopathy will be beneficial. As far as diet is concerned, they tend to be very good cooks and, as long as they don’t go overboard on sugar, salt and rich sauces and spices, their diet is often healthy. If weight is a problem they need to make sure that they don’t get obsessed with exercise, reminding themselves that although regular exercise is beneficial for health and will help them lose weight, the key to weight control often lies in the head; they may need to stop thinking of themselves as overweight. Carrying a quartz crystal will help boost their mood and reenergize their zest and vitality in all situations.
November 14 people must beware of becoming obsessed with all sorts of real or imagined ailments. Some born on this day tend to be worry-warts when it comes to illness, and may seek medical advice much too often. Developing a greater faith in the healing abilities of the body and natural remedies is thus important. If November 14 people take an active interest in diet and cooking they can be superb with food. However, excessive concern about weight must not be allowed to reach neurotic proportions; sexual and athletic activities should be kept within healthy self-imposed limits.
These people have a natural affinity with careers in which they can help, guide or assist others, such as social work, therapy, the medical professions, counseling, and teaching. They may also be drawn toward writing, research and psychology, as well as the theater, music and the arts.
The life path of people born on this day is to learn to maintain a healthy intellectual and emotional equilibrium. Once they have learned to balance their own needs with those of others, their destiny is to offer practical and emotional support, guidance and assistance to others.
Keep your moral and judgmental tendencies under control. Learn to leave others in peace and respect their values. Everything is not available for your scrutiny, so observe privacy.
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