☆Your greatest challenge is intimacy
☆The way forward is to understand that opening yourself up to someone else is not a sign of weakness, but a sign that you are human.
The Birthday Of Finesse, The Day Of Elegance
Sun signs: Scorpio/Sagittarius
Ruling planets: Mars, the warrior/Jupiter, the philosopher
Symbols: The Scorpion/The Archer
Birth date ruler: Jupiter, the philosopher
Tarot card: The World (fulfillment)
Favorable numbers: 3, 5
Lucky days: Tuesday and Thursday, especially when these days fall on 3 and 5 of the month
Lucky colors: Red, purple, blue
Birthstone: Topaz
People born on November 21 love freedom and live by their own rules, but they also have a strong sense of justice, their mission being nothing less than to change the world. Regal and refined by nature, they are natural leaders who have no trouble working with the best, and more often than not being the best.
Those born on this day bring a quality touch to everything they do, and a major theme in their lives is refinement, and an insistence on creating and surrounding themselves with excellence. This finesse can manifest itself in their bewitchingly stylish appearance or approach, and it can manifest itself internally in the fine-tuning of their ideas. However it manifests itself over the years, they will be constantly improving and refining themselves in some way and, in the process, attracting considerable success and respect from others. This will not just be for their ability to learn from their mistakes, but also for their ability to make the impossible seem possible. The only downside with this careful, detailed approach is that it can make them a little too self-reliant, smooth and serious; they run the risk of losing their sense of humor and spontaneity along the way.
Until the age of thirty these people may find that they want to experiment and broaden their horizons; these are the years when they are most likely to make mistakes professionally or choose professions to which they are unsuited. After the age of thirty, however, there is a turning point when they are likely to take a more disciplined, determined and serious approach to life, ensuring that they make fewer and fewer mistakes professionally.
They need to beware of making the biggest mistake of all: denying themselves the happiness and fulfillment of close relationships with their fellow human beings. But once they have got in touch with their own feelings and the feelings of others, they have the ability to rise above any difficult situation and solve problems—perhaps even change the world for the better—with their inspired thinking.
☆ On the dark side：Workaholic, closed off, depressive
☆ At your best：Disciplined, elegant, influential
Those born on November 21 have a feeling for natural grace and elegance, whether it be expressed in their bearing and body language or through the production or appreciation of highly polished ideas and products. Those born on this day are extremely interested in what is most up-to-date in the society around them, and have little time for oldfashioned thinking. Yet, they are quick to sense the value in forgotten techniques and ideas which can be revived and given a distinctly modern twist. Thus November 21 people often find themselves on the cutting edge of a deeply established tradition. Indeed, they may experience great conflicts with the preceding generation (most often their parents) who cannot see the sense in what they are doing. If it takes a lifetime, November 21 people have to prove to their detractors, and indeed to the world, that their personal vision was correct.
Early in life, November 21 people often make damaging mistakes of judgment. Particularly in their first twenty-eight years, they may display self-destructive rebelliousness, lack of direction and general uncertainty of purpose (compared to friends and colleagues they see around them). Yet they carry a strong sense of pride and identity within them, and they always learn from their mistakes. One danger, however, is that those born on this day can become hardened through the knocks they receive from life. A physically elegant November 21 person can grow cooler and sleeker on the outside, and virtually impenetrable emotionally, while a mentally elegant type may become increasingly mercenary, concerned only with those ideas that work in a practical sense. Both types tend to eradicate any weaknesses in either appearance or method which can lead to defeat or failure. The problem is that such November 21 people may lose some of their sportiveness, creative flair and sense of childlike play as they learn more about how not to be hurt. They must therefore beware of closing themselves off to chance happenings and to fun in their quest for perfection and success—that is, forgetting a simpler past.
November 21 people are intimately involved with the workings of the world, and so may neglect the real study of themselves at a deep level. It is important that by their early forties (mid-life period) they know what their relationship to this world is. This involves developing transparence—freeing themselves of fears and rigid poses. If over the years they have painstakingly built up a perfect outer fortress, physically or mentally, they may have to learn again to be childlike and vulnerable. Only in this way will they be able to bring their inner being in tune with the world around them, which is their best hope for lasting success and happiness.
Power Thought：My progress as a loving and spontaneous person is my gift to the world，The body is a prism that may be usedfor inward and outward projection
Those born on the 21th day of the month are ailed by the number 3 (2+1=3). and by the expansive planet Jupiter. Those ruled by the number 3 are ambitious, sometimes dictatorial. The number 21 often indicates physical beauty and this may be particularly true of November 21 women. The double influence of Jupiter (ruler of Sagittarius and of the number 3) leads to an expansive attitude toward the world, but Pluto's influence (as Scorpio's ailer) lends November 21 energy a dark, passionate quality.
The 21s1 card of the Major Arcana is The World, which depicts a goddess running with energygiving rods in her hands. She surmounts the world and displays the truth; she has unlimited power. This card symbolizes all that is attainable on the earthly plane. Although reward and integrity are assured, traditionally the card can also indicate monumental obstacles and setbacks of fortune, as well as negative traits of distraction and self-pit)-.
☆Luck maker：(Luck loves openness)Expressive and open people are appealing and more likely to get offers of help than people who are self-contained and closed. Because they are alive and energetic, helping them makes us feel alive and energetic.
You’re drawn to people born on November 22 to December 21：As long as there is no secrecy or pretense, this can be an intense and passionate union.
People born on November 21 like to be their own boss, and their self-reliant search for perfection can make them loners. Intimacy can be a problem, and they may use their ironic sense of humor to keep everyone smile, but at arm’s length. For the sake of their happiness it is important for them to reconnect with their childlike vulnerability, not allowing their intense focus on achieving their goals to alienate them from the love of the people they seek to inspire and impress.
People born on this day are prone to moods swings, depression and bouts of self-pity when life doesn’t go as planned or people don’t respond to them in the way that they had hoped. They need to understand that feeling sorry for themselves is a waste of their energy because it is likely to push people away rather than make them gather round to offer support. When it comes to diet, they need to eat little and often throughout the day to keep their energy levels up, and to spend more time cooking and less time shopping. Regular moderate exercise is extremely beneficial, especially team sports or social forms of exercise such as aerobics or dance classes which can crank their energy levels up and encourage them to interact more socially. Wearing, meditating on and surrounding themselves with the color orange will encourage them to be more spontaneous and open, as will carrying a turquoise crystal.
November 21 people are sensitive to their environment and may therefore suffer from allergies. In addition, they are emotionally labile, and have a low threshold of irritation. Family and friends may at times be concerned about their mental health, since those born on this day can become depressed, self-hurtful and frustrated when they do not get the attention they need. Exercise of a more social and public nature, from Sunday walks to swimming and team sports will do them good in the long run. Sexual satisfaction is extremely important to those born on this day (on a regular basis) but, particularly for those without a regular partner, care should be taken where sexually transmissible diseases are concerned. November 21 women should hawregular gynecological examinations and November 21 men are well advised to have their prostates checked periodically with advancing age.
These people are hardworking and adaptable, tending to rise to positions of power and prominence. They may be drawn to the world of business, to advertising, publishing and the media, or they could find themselves excelling in politics, charity work and the healing professions. They may also express their creativity in teaching, writing or the arts.
The life path of people born on this day is to get in touch with their own feelings and those of others. Once they are able to reveal their vulnerable side and express their fun and creative side, their destiny is to inspire others to make positive changes in their lives.
Reveal yourself; there are few lasting virtues in being cool Serve whal is besi and most creative in yoursell Self-pity is poison.
Goldie Hawn(American actress), Björk(Icelandic singer-songwriter), René Magritte(Belgian surrealist artist),
Voltaire (French Enlightenment philosopher, poet, writer, Candide), Coleman Hawkins ("Hawk," jazz tenor saxophonist, innovator), Rene Magritte (Belgian surrealist painter), Stan "The Man" Musial (St Louis Cardinals baseball outfielderfirst baseman, NL 7x batting champ, 3x MVP), Goldie Hawn (film actress), Dr. John (New Orleans singer, pianist, songwriter), Sid Luckman (football quarterback 6x All-Pro, MVP, led Bears to four NFL titles), James de Priest (conductor, overcame polio), Marilyn French (feminist writer, The Woman's Room), Mariel Hemingway (film actress, model), Tina Brown (editor- in-chief Vanity Fair, New Yorker), Komaravolu Chandrasekharan (Indian mathematician), Qian Zhong Shu (Chinese writer, On Ideas and Letters), Larry Mahan (rodeo champion, 6x All-Around Cowboy). Charhe Johnson (jazz pianist first to break from ragtime), Ralph Meeker (film actor), Phoebe Omlie (aviator, stunt pilot). Oliver Goldsmith (Bntish poet, historian, writer, The Vicar of Wakefield) Mario Thomas (film, TV actress) Eleanore Powell (dancer)
