☆Your greatest challenge is being less provocative
☆The way forward is to understand that being controversial is not the only way to make people notice or remember you.
The Birthday Of The Ice Breaker, The Day Of The Provocateur
Sun sign: Scorpio
Ruling planet: Mars, the warrior
Symbol: The Scorpion
Birth date ruler: Uranus, the visionary
Tarot card: The Emperor (authority)
Favorable numbers: 4, 6
Lucky days: Tuesday and Sunday, especially when these days fall on 4 or 6 of the month
Lucky colors: Red, silver, electric blue
Birthstone: Topaz
Although they can sometimes come across as conformist and sincere, as soon as people born on November 4 start interacting with others their provocative nature shines through. They have a talent for uncovering hidden weaknesses and insecurities in people and situations, and for luring everyone they meet into their tangled web of controversy and excitement.
They are extremely persuasive individuals, and in their minds they know that they have the ability to win over almost anyone to their point of view. This is not to say they are manipulative. Quite the opposite; they are principled and honest. It is just that it is almost impossible for them to believe there are any alternatives to the truth as they see it.
Above all, these people are ice breakers wherever they find themselves. They make full use of the element of surprise and are somehow able to articulate what is unspoken or unacceptable in the most humorous or convincing way, so that others are lured into either agreeing with them or at least reviewing their own position. Unfortunately, however, their shock tactics can work against them. They may, for example, find that the situations they have stirred up have got out of hand or the views they are expressing have truly overwhelmed or offended.
Until the age of eighteen, they may have come across as shy or intense. After the age of nineteen, however, that slowly recedes and is replaced by a growing need for freedom and the desire to expand their horizons through study, education or travel. After the age of forty-eight there is another turning point when the emphasis is on financial and emotional security. Whatever age they are, the key to success is to use their common sense and become more aware of the way their stance toward life is affecting others and, ultimately, themselves. When greater self-awareness and self-discipline are combined with their intuitive perception and natural leadership qualities, they are capable of achieving not controversial or shocking but truly spectacular results in life.
☆ On the dark side：Overwhelming, provocative, tactless
☆ At your best：Magnetic, exciting, supportive
Those born on November 4 have a knack for arousing controversy. They are highly stimulating in both word and deed and in their family and social circle tend to be dominant and valued members.
Though many November 4 people assume a conservative, perhaps almost colorless appearance, their charm and wealth of personality- becomes apparent in conversation. On first meeting, they usually make a lively yet sincere impression, and may not show right away just how provocative they can be. In fact, the longer one knows them, the more one sees that they not only have a talent for stirring up the pot but also piercing the thickest armor in their personal contacts. Masters at breaching defenses, they usually know exactly where the soft or vulnerable points are. Indeed, once they get rolling they can be very difficult for anyone, including themselves, to stop. Recognizing their limitations, controlling their energies, becoming more realistic in their goals, and above all remaining constructive in their outlook is important for them to keep in mind.
November 4 people have a fine sense of humor that can at one time be dry and restrained, at another, infectious—even hilarious. It is a very human and positive attribute that allows them to quickly bridge differences in race, class or religion. Through a joke and a bit of laughter, they can put people at ease and break the ice in an uncomfortable situation. On the other side, depression is very alien to the November 4 character, and therefore those born on this day have a great deal of trouble understanding the negativity of others. The problem is that they sometimes fail to recognize how serious things have gotten in their own situation and can remain unduly optimistic when prospects are in fact bleak.
November 4 people are highly magnetic personalities, who not only have a talent for persuasion but are adept at ignoring or dexterously parrying criticism directed their way. In their mind, sooner or later they will win others over to their point of view. Yet ultimately they can misjudge the receptiveness of their audience, especially since their viewpoints can be quite extreme and their presentation provocative and even upsetting. By thus creating a chaotic situation they may undercut their own influence.
November 4 people love to be served but usually return the favor by giving at least as much as they get. In fact, they can be overly giving and others may take advantage of them or come to expect too much. For some November 4 people, the expectations of others can become intolerably heavy after a while, even for the seemingly boundless energy they possess.
Particularly women born on this day must beware of getting involved with the wrong man.
Men born on this day tend to become indispensable emotionally, perhaps too much so for those close to them, and thus must beware of fostering dependency.
Power Thought：The greatest excitement and adventure is found within，Faith is sometimes more Powerful than actions
Those born on the 4th day of the month are ruled by the number 4 and by the planet Uranus. People niled by the number 4 have their own, often peculiar, way of doing things; Uranus indicates sudden changeability and unpredictable action, traits that can be magnified in November 4 people. Generally, those ruled by the number 4 are not overly concerned with money, and November 4 people, who focus on ideals are no exception. Those ruled by the number 4 are vulnerable to psychological hun. particularly when it comes to rejection by their group, which they take very hard. The connection of Uranus with the ruler of Scorpio. Pluto, indicates dynamic sexual magnetism.
The 4th card of the Major Arcana is The Emperor, who rules over worldly things through wisdom, the primary source of his power. The Emperor is stable and wise; the force of his authority cannot be questioned. The positive associations of this card are strong willpower and steadfast energy; negative indications include stubbornness, tyranny, even brutality.
☆Luck maker：(Look better and act dumber)When you are self-deprecating you bring people closer to you and make them more likely to want to help you, because you are admitting you have the same fears as everyone else.
You’re drawn to people born on August 23 to September 23：This is a brilliantly complementary match as you are sexually and intellectually compatible.
People born on November 4 are quick to throw themselves into social situations that can maximize their chances of attracting admirers and potential partners. Once they learn to love themselves for who they are and overcome hurts from their past, they have the potential to attract and hold on to their ideal partner—someone inventive and intelligent like themselves.
People born on this day need to be aware of the powerful link between their physical and emotional or mental health. When they are feeling run down or have succumbed to a bout of illness, the chances are a period of stress, uncertainty or unhappiness was the trigger. Although a certain amount of illness keeps their immune system in working order, if they find they are lurching from one infection or virus to another they need to take a long hard look at their life and relationships to see where the weakness might lie. It is important to ensure they schedule into their busy diary plenty of time for rest and relaxation. As far as diet is concerned, the fresher and more natural their food the better; they could have digestive upsets if they eat food too rich in additives and preservatives. Regular exercise, in particular long walks in the park or countryside, is highly recommended to help them gain a sense of balance and perspective. Wearing, meditating on and surrounding themselves with the color green will help bring greater harmony and hope.
November 4 people, in attracting a wide range of energy to themselves, can put a strain on their psychological and physical reserves. It is therefore important for them to limit their responsibilities, and escape to a quiet home or vacation hideaway regularly. Those born on this day tend to disregard symptoms of bad health, often because they are taken up with the concerns of others. They must take at least basic precautions to protect themselves from contagious diseases. It is difficult for many November 4 people to discipline their diet since their passion for food can lead to cravings and binges. Weight control is a particular problem for women born on this day. Exercise is the greater part of the solution.
These people need to be in careers where they can reach the widest possible audience, so they may be drawn to acting, writing, journalism, and performing, or even politics and social reform. Other career options that might appeal include business, commerce, medicine, psychology, education, and the worlds of religion or philosophy.
The life path of people born on this day is to learn to take a more neutral, balanced perspective. Once they are able to tone down their enthusiasm to a level that supports but does not offend, their destiny is to effectively present their viewpoints to instigate reform.
Adopt a more neutral stance toward life. Work quietly and keep your emotions under control.Don't give more than you can sustain over time. Also beware of the demands you make on others.Keep your sense of humor active.
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