☆Your greatest challenge is admitting mistakes
☆The way forward is to understand that the person who can admit they have made a mistake is not someone people disapprove of, but someone people can identify with and respect.
The Birthday Of The Double Life, The Day Of Vogue
Sun sign: Libra
Ruling planet: Venus, the lover
Symbol: The Scales
Birth date ruler: Moon, the intuitive
Tarot card: Judgment (responsibility)
Favorable numbers: 2, 3
Lucky days: Friday and Monday, especially when these days fall on 2 and 3 of the month
Lucky colors: Pink, silver, white
Birthstone: Opal
People born on October 20 are something of a paradox, with two distinctively different sides to their personality. One side is the quintessential professional who spreads a message of harmony and collaboration. The other side is one of unpredictability, but also great artistry and an appreciation of sensuality, beauty and creativity.
Generally, people born on this day find a way to accommodate both sides of their personality, perhaps by pursuing conventional careers and indulging their artistic tastes as a hobby, or by placing an emphasis on matters of personal style. Indeed, their appearance is rarely a trivial concern for them and, however conventional their career choice, they will always find a way to express their individuality through their clothes, hairstyle or fashion sense.
The double life that they tend to lead also shows up in the way that they interact with others. They like to think they put the focus on others and are born democrats, but it is only a matter of time before they take center stage or a leadership role—this is the place they were born to be. This isn’t to say they are scheming or insincere. Quite the opposite, they are extremely giving and caring individuals. It is just that their creativity and originality are so powerful it is impossible for them to contain or subordinate them for long.
In their twenties they may experience a growing emphasis on emotional change, personal power and regeneration, and they may struggle to find a way to express themselves creatively in their professional life. In their mid to late thirties there is, however, a turning point when they will become more adventurous. These are the years when it is absolutely crucial for them to find ways to reconcile their rational capacity with their creative, often artistic impulses. If they are able to find this delicate balance they will continue to lead a double life; the difference is that it will no longer feel conflicting and complicated, but completely natural and fulfilling.
☆ On the dark side：Unfulfilled, confused, egocentric
☆ At your best：Creative, fair minded, enthusiastic
Those born on October 20 are very conscious of what is in and what is out at any given time. Often their influence is so great that they can even define certain social trends themselves, but just as often may find themselves at odds with the prevailing social standard or fashion. Their drive to be not only accepted but also influential in their social milieu is very strong. Therefore, in this arena rejection hits them hard, and setbacks, difficulties or delays can dampen their spirit.
October 20 people often lead a kind of double life where their career is a money-maker and their "hobby" is where they invest their creative energy. It is not at all uncommon for October 20 people to look very coldly on their principal profession, since romantically their heart takes them elsewhere. Perhaps this, in itself, is one of the main reasons for their success: objectivity and distance seem to work to their advantage.
October 20 people generally do well in the material world. They have a good feeling for money and finance, so much so that they can become obsessed with it. They are also extremely competent managers. Paradoxically, those born on this day are vulnerable to physical maladies.
Thus, for many October 20 people poor health undermines their material plans by making it difficult for them to function. It seems that the weight of tangible concerns can be a recurring theme in their lives.
October 20 people are very hard-headed. Once they make up their minds about something it is hard to stop them from following through. Learning to admit mistakes is an extremely important step in their personal evolution. Fortunately, the October 20 rational capacity is highly developed (accompanied by emotional control), and thus they can be appealed to through reason. If one can show an October 20 person a better way to do something, really demonstrate it, then he/she will eventually adopt it (though probably not right away).
Personal appearance counts a lot to October 20 people. Matters of fashion, style, and design are not superficial or trite in their eyes but an expression of individuality. Whether their profession involves these areas directly or not, those born on this day are highly aware of the impression they make on others. Indeed, October 20 people leave an indelible mark on their family, business associates and social circle.
Power Thought：I am capable of more than I can possibly dream，Learning to quiet the mind is the first step to enlightenment
Those born on the 20th day of the month are ruled by the number 2 (2+0=2). and by the Moon. People ruled by the number 2 tend to be impressionable and imaginative, and easily hurt by the criticism or inattention of others. They may also take offense easily and have a low threshold of irritation. Born under the combined influences of the Moon, Venus (ruler of Libra) and Pluto (ruler of Scorpio), October 20 people are often powerfully attracted by wealth and sensuous pleasures.
The 20th card of the Major Arcana shows The Judgment or Awakening in which we are urged to leave material considerations behind and seek a higher spirituality, an image particularly relevant for October 20 people. The card, depicting an angel blowing a trumpet, signifies that a new day, a day of accountability, is dawning. It is a card that challenges us to move beyond our ego and perhaps glimpse the infinite. The danger is that some may hear only a fanfare heralding exaltation, intoxication and indulgence in revels involving the basest instincts.
☆Luck maker：(Keep moving)When you hear the word “no,” think of it as a temporary setback not a permanent problem. To get what you want in life you must keep moving, generating action and new opportunities.
You’re drawn to people born on June 21 to July 22：You are both giving and creative individuals, with much to learn from each other about expressing and controlling yourselves.
People born on October 20 are charming and stylish individuals who rarely lack admirers. They can come across as fun loving and occasionally lightweight on first acquaintance, but underneath they are forceful and independent. Anyone who enters into a relationship with them will underestimate them at their peril. Their ideal mate will be someone gentle enough to handle them during their sensitive moments, but strong enough to stand up to their forceful personality.
People born on this day may find that their desire to please or impress others sometimes takes a higher priority in their lives than their health and wellbeing. As a result they may push themselves too hard and increase the risk of stress, or focus too much on their appearance at the expense of emotional fulfillment. It is important for them to get their priorities right and to remember that their health should always come before anything. Allergies could be a problem for them, as they are often sensitive to their environment. As far as diet is concerned, certain foods may trigger digestive upsets, and an elimination diet will help them determine the cause. Regular exercise is highly recommended to boost their immune systems and also to help them feel more connected to their bodies. Wearing, meditating on and surrounding themselves with the color green will help them find greater balance in their lives and inspire harmony in others.
October 20 people sometimes have unusual physical problems, which they simply must attend to or risk physical dysfunction. Those born on this day are so sensitive to the environment around them that they can develop all sorts of allergies, asthma, arthritis and related difficulties, including immunoreactive deficiencies. Examining what they eat and making needed changes can help enormously, for example following a mucusless diet to get rid of phlegm from dairy products and allergic substances. Vigorous physical exercise can serve to expel poisons from the body but some October 20 people must still rigorously avoid food preservatives and other additives. Biological forms of physical expression (having sex and having children, for example) can do a great deal to ground those born on this day and keep them on an even keel.
These people are multi-talented and suited to a variety of professions from science to politics, business, art and entertainment. Possible careers include writing, sales, public relations, education, publishing, journalism, counseling, therapy, medicine, commerce, and management.
The life path of people born on this day is to find a balance between the opposing sides of their nature, so that both are fulfilled. Once they define a role for themselves in life or devote themselves to a worthwhile vocation, their destiny is to produce independent, original and progressive work.
Ground yourself. Stay in touch with basic concerns and don't compromise your health. Define and clarify your role relative to your environment. Getting carried away can lost- you friends.
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