The trick here isn’t to figure out a formula, but to question whose goals you are following. Are they someone else’s, or are they yours? If they are someone else’s, of course, the first step is to get rid of them and to figure out actually what you care about most. Do that and everything else will fall into place as if by magic.
Complaining is satisfying but achieves little, while charm can do wonders
The word “commitment” is an important one for you as a Libra, because as an air sign, getting things figured out is vital. It may have to do with life, with love, with goals, with work—or with how you live with a passion. Whatever the case, that commitment requires a lot of thought and a lot of discussion—or at least, so you think.
However, there is an easier way to deal with this, and that is what might be termed very “un-Libra.” It is a way that has more to do with ignoring discussions with others—and ignoring gathering the facts—but feeling what goes on deep within when you think about a certain activity, a certain pursuit, or a certain individual. Indeed, it may have to do with what you’re going to do for a living if you work. It may have to do with a certain relationship. It may have to do with what brings you joy or love.
The key is to feel what is going on within, and instead of debating what will happen if you take action on it, simply take that first step without turning it into a major plan. Then take the next step, and the step after that, and the one after that, and so on.
Instead of wasting time, effort, and quite a lot of energy on debating, you will learn from life itself.
There is a solution for tensions with others, and that is to talk. Not about what’s on your mind, or about an idea or a solution, but to let that talk wander, let it take on its own life. Do that and you will soon discover why it matters so much that you achieve an accord with the individual in question. Then achieving that accord will be easy.
We all know what we should and shouldn’t eat, and how we should exercise. But there is not much about how to eliminate anxiety. As a Libra this is important, because it influences so much else—when your mind rampages, or focuses on worry. The secret is simple. It is to decide where you will allow your mind to go.
The trick here isn’t to figure out a formula, but to question whose goals you are following. Are they someone else’s, or are they yours? If they are someone else’s, of course, the first step is to get rid of them and to figure out actually what you care about most. Do that and everything else will fall into place as if by magic.
After a tricky couple of weeks in which you’ve had to compromise, not always willingly, suddenly things are coming together. This isn’t just an improvement. It is worth revisiting certain of these recent tricky matters and discussing the possibility that arrangements could be reviewed.
Libra: SEPTEMBER 22 – OCTOBER 21
Ruler: Venus
Symbol: The Scales
Element: Air
Flower: Rose
Being ruled by Venus, the goddess of elegance, beauty, and love, you as a Libra have an instinctive elegance and talent for making others—everybody you meet—feel special. This talent often becomes your career, and those personal links develop into a lifelong passion. Your flower is the rose; your herbs are redolent mint and sorrel; and ash and poplar are your trees. Jade, in its infinite shades, is your stone.