You are very accommodating with others, but once in a while you need to draw a clear line in situations or relationships. It may have to do with activities in your working life, and that clear line is to say what you are willing to accept and what you aren’t. If you can make changes, do. If you can’t, then get yourself out of the situation in question.
Don’t allow those who are negative about life to influence your expectations
It is difficult for you to admit, but certain individuals aren’t just tricky, they’re actually deceptive and will happily take advantage of you. Of course, the problem is, you don’t always recognize that. This has happened in the past and it could well happen again. In fact, it happens frequently enough that it is important that you recognize these individuals, and once you do, distance yourself from them.
This is the tricky part, because as a Libra, you prefer to believe the best in others. While that is admirable, it is worth taking a hint from the sign next to yours, Scorpio, which can be somewhat suspicious, and recognize that if somebody seems not to be trustworthy, this may be because that is actually the case.
This will teach you not only about those you can trust, but will also allow you to enjoy the company of those you care about and with whom trust has been built over a long period of time—which for you as a Libra is one of the most valuable varieties of relationships there are.
Tempting as it is to invest time in dealing with those tricky individuals who are actually manipulative, if not just plain challenging, if you enjoy it, ensure they are just a sideline and make those who you can trust and who care about you the main course for your day, for your week, and for your life.
As you begin to study certain individuals and notice their rather tricky nature, you will also notice how they’re adept at changing the rules; how it’s absolutely okay if they cut things off at the last minute, or even if they lie to you. Is this what you would do with someone else? And if you permit it from others, then think about why you spent any time with them at all.
There are many ways to feed yourself. Obviously there is food you eat and the air you breathe. But, the emotions around you also feed and influence you. This is especially important for you as somebody who’s often very tolerant of tricky individuals. They can be exciting but, as you know, they can be toxic, and undermine your well-being. The solution? Be alert, and put your interests first.
You are very accommodating with others, but once in a while you need to draw a clear line in situations or relationships. It may have to do with activities in your working life, and that clear line is to say what you are willing to accept and what you aren’t. If you can make changes, do. If you can’t, then get yourself out of the situation in question.
There are many reasons to say “No.” At the moment, it is more about being hesitant than a firm refusal—or at least, that’s how you feel. Ensure others understand that, or they will walk away disappointed and might never come back.
Libra: SEPTEMBER 22 – OCTOBER 21
Ruler: Venus
Symbol: The Scales
Element: Air
Flower: Rose
Being ruled by Venus, the goddess of elegance, beauty, and love, you as a Libra have an instinctive elegance and talent for making others—everybody you meet—feel special. This talent often becomes your career, and those personal links develop into a lifelong passion. Your flower is the rose; your herbs are redolent mint and sorrel; and ash and poplar are your trees. Jade, in its infinite shades, is your stone.
